Think and write down the names of 5 important people in your life.


Now think,
– What do they ‘need’ from you?
– What is that you ‘need’ from them?


The truth is, the basis of every relationship is a need. It is natural, wonderful and perfectly ok to have needs in a relationship. Having clarity about ‘needs’, helps keeps things clear and simple. Most of the times, however, needs are unspoken.


When these needs are met, relationships are great. When these needs are unmet, we struggle.


Here are some possible unspoken needs of your loved ones. They are silently saying to you…


Inspire me
Trust me
Guide me
Touch me
Accept me
Notice me
Share with me
Challenge me
Support me
Hold me
Push me
Don’t push me
Understand me
Empower me
Help me
Appreciate me
Teach me
Learn from me
Depend on me
Allow me to….
Listen to me
Create opportunities for me
Stay with me
Take care of me
Protect me


Go all out to understand and meet their needs.

Express and ask your needs to be met.


Sometimes, it will be like a tug of war. Smile and carry on. By meeting these needs, you will be….superbly maintaining, sustaining and nurturing your relationships. Forever!!!


With love, prayers and exceptional wishes,
Change your thoughts. Change your life


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  1. Mina Bobdey January 27, 2021 at 9:54 am


  2. TAUHIDA CHIKODI January 27, 2021 at 9:55 am

    Really inspiring. Made me think about my close ones.
    Thanks a ton!😄

    1. admin January 27, 2021 at 10:35 am

      It’s great to hear that.

  3. Nand Lal Sharma January 27, 2021 at 2:58 pm

    Dear friends the subject is explained with upmost simplicity. Thanks.

    1. admin February 1, 2021 at 11:24 am

      Our pleasure.

  4. Suparna January 28, 2021 at 7:11 pm

    Absolutely naren!!!
    Need and its fulfillment
    Recognising others needs without expression
    It’s the need of the relationshaip…

    1. admin February 1, 2021 at 11:25 am



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