No one wants to fail.
No one wants to be abused.
No one wants to create a mess.
No one wants to get heartbroken.
No one wants to take bad decisions.
No one wants to be taken for granted.
No one wants to get passed over for promotion.
But, guess what? These things happen.
For a sportsperson, injuries are a way of life.
For a horse rider, falling off the horse is always a possibility.
For being outspoken, controversies will dog you.
For a writer, the writers block is a part of the process .
For an inventor, failures are routine.
Getting injured, falling off the horse, getting embroiled in controversies, the mind hitting the wall, failures in experiments, are all hurdles in the smooth journey that we wish to have. These hurdles invariably creates doubts.
Doubts hijack the future history we are about to make!
I used to worry about what if ‘this’ person doesn’t like me, why ‘that’ person didn’t support me, why my business partnership ‘broke up’, am I thinking too ‘big’, etc. Not any more.
The truth is, ‘Doubts are a part of every dream’. Doubts and doubters will always be directly proportional to the quality of dreams we have.
How to tackle these doubts?
When in doubt, remember…
▪ all the obstacles you have overcome
▪ all the sacrifices you have made along the way
▪ the faces of people who would be proud of your future success.
Your doubts are not there to stop you. They are there for you to double up your efforts.
To defeat all my doubts ask yourself two questions.
1. What if each and every one of my doubts is a fake?
2. What if, each and every one of my dream is the real stuff?
Zoom out the doubts, wish them RIP, zoom in to your dreams, laugh at the silliness of the mirages doubts makes us see and merrily move on.
Remember the nursery poetry, ‘Row, row, row your boat…….merrily merrily, merrily, merrily, life is but a dream.’ The poet did not say, “Life is but a doubt.” He said, ‘Life is but a dream’. Let us live that dream.
Do you allow doubts to hijack the history you wish to create?
With love, prayers, and exceptional wishes,
Change your thoughts. Change your life.
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